Is eating fat bad for me and will I gain weight?

Is eating fat bad for me and will I gain weight?

“So, you’re suggesting I eat nuts, seeds, olive oil, whole fat milk and yoghurt, salmon, sardines, avocados, eggs, and even butter,” a client recently asked me. “But I can’t shake my fear of fat. Is eating fat bad for me? Isn’t it going to make me gain weight – the very thing I’m trying to avoid!” If you think that eating fat is bad and it’s going to lead to weight gain, your ambivalence is understandable but let me put your mind at ease. 

Is eating fat bad?

eating fat won't make you fat


FAT! That four letter word…we hate. 

For the past four decades we have been urged to banish it from our diets wherever possible. The recommendation was to switch to low-fat foods.

But this shift hasn’t made us healthier or thinner, probably because we also cut out the healthy fats as well as the potentially harmful ones.

But, don’t be scared of fat. You actually need it in your diet.

Fats have been given a bad name, but they are an important part of our diet. I promise you – good quality healthy fats will not make you put on weight. The fat you eat is not the fat you wear (unless it fat from deep fried stuff).

Mono and polyunsaturated fats (such as the list of foods I suggested to my client above) are excellent sources of essential fatty nutrients. They play a very important role in maintaining healthy skin and hair, regulating body temperature, supporting the immune system, insulating internal organs, nerve transmission, vitamin and mineral absorption, and hormone production.

Just like petrol and diesel are both fuels that cars can run on. If you put gas in a diesel engine or the other way around, the engine may run but it won’t run well, or it won’t run for a long.

Similar to cars, the human body functions well on a range of fats in combination with carbohydrates and protein, but it runs much better on some types of fat, compared to others. For example, the fat component of your say your lunch, is really important for the absorption of fat soluable vitamins (vitamins A, D, E & K) that are hopefully present in your lunch. If no fat is included in your lunch at all, the vitamins from your lunch won’t be absorbed into your blood stream as easily.


healthy fats


Healthy fats don’t make you “fat” – excess calories make you “fat”. It’s about getting the balance right.


Not all fats are created equal. The not so healthy fats include industrial made trans fats. Saturated fats fall somewhere in between. There is now some quality evidence to suggest that saturted fats such as butter, is perhaps not as bad for us as we once thought.

Trans fats are found in everything from commercially baked biscuits and pastries, to fast-food French fries. Eating foods rich in trans fats increases the amount of harmful LDL cholesterol in the bloodstream and reduces the amount of beneficial HDL cholesterol. 

So, is eating fat bad for you? What about all the talk of it leading to heart disease? The research tells us this: Numerous meta-analyses and systematic reviews of both the historical and current literature reveals that the diet-heart hypothesis was not, and still is not, supported by the evidence. There appears to be no consistent benefit to all-cause or CVD (cardiovascular disease) mortality from the reduction of dietary saturated fat. 

As I always say, the poison is in the dose no matter if that’s fats, sugar or carbs etc. So most things, including butter, is a good option to include in your diet. You gotta love fats because with 9k/Cal per gram, eating halthy fats will also help to keep you fuller and siatiated for longer. Meaning you may eat less throughout the day. So maybe fat isn’t that bad afterall. Eating healthy fats is actually GOOD for your health, weight and body. 

If you’re on the low-fat train, it’s time to jump off! If you need help with that, don’t hesitate to get in touch with me here>>

kelly renee eating behaviour coach

Women are wasting their life in the pursuit of thinness

Women are wasting their life in the pursuit of thinness

Many women are wasting their precious life being absorbed by the pursuit of weight loss and thinness.

Pursuing “physical attractiveness,” attained by eating 1200 calories a day, denying themselves food when they are hungry, hours spent doing exercise they hate, and weighing, measuring, tracking and recording food and/or their body.

Yes, the pursuit of thinness is very alluring. The media and society glamorise thin bodies.

There are very few mainstream celebrities who aren’t thin and you would be hard-pressed to find advertising that incorporates body diversity, unless it’s peddling a weight loss solution.

There are whole industries built on feeding women’s insecurities.

They want you to believe that thin and beautiful equals happy. They want you to believe that you’re only worthy, lovable, likeable and enough, if you are thin.

However, the research findings show us that the pursuit of weight loss to be thinner, does not necessarily improve psychological well-being, and that weight loss in and of itself doesn’t always come with the fanfare often expected of it.

Emily Schievert asked, “Why is it,” so many of my female friends who are already skinny are still obsessed with being thin or losing more weight?” It’s a great question, I think, because it points to a fundamental insight, namely, that the pursuit of thinness isn’t simply about a slender body.

The reason many already-slender women want to be even leaner is because a size 6 figure (or whatever the low number) isn’t really what they are looking for.

Essentially, what they want is not to be thinner, but to be happier.

This isn’t to say that thin people aren’t happy. This is to say that being thin is not: A) a cure for feeling unhappy or B a guarantee of happiness.

It is to say: Happiness does not require thinness. Fatness does not presume a person is unhappy.

Don’t buy into the weight loss = happiness BS and you will reclaim your life (and happiness) back.

If beneath the pursuit of this physical ideal, there is an even deeper quest to be happy, no wonder many women feel they can never be thin enough.

What if you could be happy without having to change or “fix” your body?

If this is something you need help with, please don’t hesitate to reach out to me.

Take good care,

What ‘Healthy Eating’ Looks Like In 2018

What ‘Healthy Eating’ Looks Like In 2018

Eating healthy doesn’t need to be hard. There’s a perception that eating healthy is expensive and time-consuming (sometimes it is). The problem is, people believe they have to be perfect, so they don’t bother at all. However, perfection is impossible and completely unnecessary.


What ‘Healthy Eating’ Looks Like In 2018


We put so much pressure on ourselves to have a perfect diet, comparing ourselves to how “good” people are eating and how “bad” we have been ourselves. All that pressure and guilt takes the pleasure out of eating.

Healthy eating doesn’t mean you can never eat your favourite foods. It certainly shouldn’t feel like punishment.


normal eating

This is what  ‘Healthy Eating’ might look like to you in 2018:


Ignore fad diets, and restricted and restrained eating.

There’s no one size fits all diet (It’s trial and error).

No foods are ‘good’ or ‘bad’ (Food is not a moral issue). Labelling food gives it power. YOU are the one with the power, not the food. 

Ensure you eat your macros daily (carbohydrates, protein AND FATS), but don’t get too hung up on it.

Eat as many vegetables and salads as you can.

Limit (do not restrict) processed foods.

Keep it simple. It doesn’t have to be fancy.

Eat how your great-grandmother ate. Eat food as close to its original source as possible.

Don’t have time for eggs in the morning – make a nutritious smoothie. You can get over half of your fruit/veg intake for the day before even leaving the house!

Pick a place to start – don’t put pressure on yourself to change everything all at once. Planning ahead with meals, keeping a list of your favourite recipes handy, and getting food delivered from the supermarket can help you with time constraints.

Have healthy food and foods you enjoy stocked in the pantry, fridge and freezer so you can throw things together on a whim.

Have a meal or small snack every 3 to 4 hours. This fuels your metabolism and helps prevent binges and blood sugar crashes.

Visit the farmer’s markets or supermarket to stock up on supplies and dedicate some time each week or fortnight to cook in large batches and freeze meals.

Importantly, instead of focusing on what you think you can’t eat; focus on all of the foods you can eat… and how great such foods make you feel. Be creative with food and keep food fun, this will help remove any stress around food.

Most of all what it comes down to is realising that there is no ‘perfect’ diet. Just a diet that’s right for you, in that particular time. Even the “perfect day” isn’t perfect if you eat the same thing over and over again.

Life is about balance. Doing the things that are right for you the majority of the time. For me, food is not just fuel for my body, it is for pleasure too. 

Happy New Year! I hope 2018 is your year to shine!

If you need some help to have a healthy relationship with food, don’t hesitate to get in touch with me here>>

kelly renee eating behaviour coach



Healthy Alternatives to Satisfy Your Pizza Craving

Love pizza? Trying to eat healthy? No problem, I’ve got you covered!

Before you call for a $5 Domino’s pizza tonight. You know the one’s, the one’s where you need a microscope to literally find the so-called ingredients on top.

Yep, well not this pizza baby!

Check out this awesome, healthy, but insanely yummy pitta bread pizza (pizza pretender) recipe instead. You can thank me later!

Friday night dinners are usually take-away of some description. As a kid we used to get fish and chips every Friday night, these days i’m pretty keen for a nice pizza and a glass of red.

These healthy alternatives will let you eat pizza to your heart’s content, without any guilt or indigestion. You can treat yourself knowing you’re having a nutritious meal, and everyone will be impressed by your creative alternatives. While striving to eat healthy all the time is a good goal, it’s important to remember you’re allowed to indulge your cravings in moderation.

If moderation and pizza don’t go hand-in-hand for you,

a) I totally get it! and

b) instead you can make these insanely quick and easy pitta bread pizzas as a healthier alternative. These could totally be eaten every Friday night if you liked.

I’ve made these with both friends and little one’s before, and trust me, they went down a treat!

This makes for one hungry adult.


1 large wholemeal pitta bread
1 tbsp sugar-free tomato purée
1 tsp mixed herbs
6 cherry tomatoes sliced in half
half a small capsicum
1 handful spinach or any greens
8 slices salami, torn into small pieces
6 black olives cut in half
50g cheddar, grated

Heat the grill. Spread each pitta bread with 1 tbsp tomato purée, sprinkle over the mixed herbs and lay on the spinach. Lay the salami over spinach, pop olives and tomatoes on top of salami, sprinkle over the cheese and grill until the cheese is golden and bubbling.

You can literally add any ingredients you like.
Different types of cheese.
Meat or no meat.
Lots of veg.

Get creative and enjoy!

What are you having for dinner tonight?

10 easy ways to eat more greens everyday.

10 easy ways to eat more greens everyday.

OK, so you’ve heard about natures original “super-foods” – green veggies. And you want to start eating more greens and reap the benefits. Maybe you want to get in on the green smoothie bandwagon? Read on and I’ll show you some simple ways you can eat more greens. 

How to sneak more greens into your diet


So, when I say greens, I mean green veggies (particularly leafy greens). They are some of the healthiest foods you can eat.

Furthermore, they are jam packed full of minerals such as folate, calcium, magnesium and potassium. They also contain vitamins A, C and K and are a great source of beneficial fiber.

And, leafy greens contain chlorophyll, which may help support natural detoxification in your body. At the same time, they are very low in fat and sugar.

They really are the wholefood “super-foods” of the vegetable world!


How can I eat more greens?

Greens add flavour to soups and salads, give crunch to a sandwich and add a depth of colour to your plate. We also eat with our eyes, so making your meals visually appealing (without needing to be a Master Chef) if important too.

There is a wonderful array of different greens around the world, and each country seems to have its own favourites. They include standard salad staples like baby spinach, rocket and lettuce. But also others like broccoli, brussel sprouts, and of course the recently popular, kale.

Additionally, you then have your less familiar leafy greens like beetroot and turnip leaves. Some leafy greens are mild and sweet tasting (like lettuce and cabbage), some have a slightly bitter taste (like spinach and silver beet), and others have a peppery taste (like rocket).

And don’t forget herbs! They are highly nutritious and are fantastic for adding plenty of flavour to almost any dish. I personally love to experiment with fresh herbs.

Some types of greens:

  • Spinach
  • Kale
  • Cabbage
  • Lettuce (cos, butter lettuce, red leaf, green leaf, iceberg
  • Silver beet
  • Broccoli
  • Bok choy
  • Rocket
  • Asparagus
  • Brussel sprouts
  • Cabbage
  • Watercress
  • Mustard greens
  • Beetroot greens
  • Turnip greens
  • Parsley
  • Basil
  • Coriander
  • Mint

And so much more!


how to eat more greens

Are greens good for me?

Greens are the perfect food to bulk up and flavour your meals with, making them nature’s perfect weight-management food, without needing to diet or restrict. Even better, including plenty of them in your diet has also been shown to help reduce your risk of cardiovascular disease, diabetes and even certain cancers!

How much should I eat?

For optimal health we should all be aiming to eat 5-6+ serves of veggies every day. Getting this many serves in a day can be quite hard for a lot of people. Myself included.

I recommend eating a variety of different greens (along with other veg) to make sure you get all of the nutrients, vitamins and minerals you need, to help prevent vitamin or mineral deficiencies, chronic disease and for good mental health.

For example, a serve of leafy greens is 75g, or about 1 cup of raw greens (like chopped lettuce, kale or rocket) or ½ cup of cooked greens (like broccoli, cabbage or spinach).

Browse this list of easy ways to eat more greens everyday:

  1. Green smoothie Green smoothies don’t have to taste like pond water or leave you starving an hour later. Make them a complete meal with lots of green veg, healthy fats, protein, fruit and a liquid base, and you are good to-go until lunch time.
  2. Eggs with Spinach- Add spinach or kale (and other veg) to an egg scramble, omelette, or frittata. This is a great way to incorporate veggies at breakfast (or at any meal in fact. ).
  3. Sautéed kale with garlic and mushrooms – I love this as a side with slow cooked lamb. It’s quick, easy and tastes divine.
  4. Barbecued asparagus wrapped with prosciutto – Asparagus and prosciutto are a match made in heaven. Need I say more…
  5. Kale chips – Tear kale into small pieces, removing stalk. Place kale in bowl with olive oil, sprinkle nutritional yeast over kale for a cheesy flavour and toss to lightly coat kale. Arrange on baking tray one layer deep and sprinkle lightly with salt. Bake at 200 degrees for 10-15 minutes or until crispy. Eat em up, yum!
  1. Throw spinach, kale, broccoli, cabbage etc into soupsAdd the leafy greens towards the end of the cooking time, so the greens won’t taste bitter, but will still absorb the other flavours of the soup.
  2. Homemade cabbage slaw – Use green and red cabbage, carrots, broccoli stems, beetroot and onions and dress with a simple olive oil and vinegar dressing. Great as a side with chicken or seafood.
  3. Grilled Salmon with Bok Choy and Snow Peas A simple meal of grilled Salmon, with steamed greens tossed with a little knob of butter melted through. Add some potato mash and you have a gorgeous healthy meal that anyone will eat.
  4. Easy green salad- Combine watercress, spinach, feta cheese, fresh beetroot and raw walnuts into a bowl. Dress with an olive oil and lemon juice dressing, and serve with any type of protein. One of my favs!
  5. Broccolini and Kale Quinoa Bowl- When you don’t know what to make for dinner, what do you usually end up making? My go-to is a quinoa bowl. For this bowl, I lightly blanched some broccolini and toss my cooked quinoa with kale, fresh mint, chickpeas, avocado, and my favourite part – slices of watermelon radish.

green smoothies


Mix it up and get creative. You don’t have to live off green leaves like a rabbit all day!

In fact, you shouldn’t. This is not about dieting and restriction.

Make greens the focus of the dish and fill your plate or smoothie up with other essentials like complex carbs, proteins and healthy fats.

It will then leave you feeling satisfied and energised until your next meal.

What are your favourite greens?

If you need support with your diet, please don’t hesitate to get in touch here>>


kelly renee eating behaviour coach



Are my beliefs about food driving my unwanted eating habits?

We all hold beliefs about food and eating that are deeply embedded in the psyche that we neither recognise or question. Even when they are invisible to you, believe it or not, these beliefs may be driving your eating decisions.

These innermost beliefs have developed from messages you were given directly or indirectly, from family, friends, the media, etc. Sometimes they are cultural norms so it never occurs to you to question them.
Mindful eating is a good way to become more conscious of what you are eating. It teaches us to pause and become curious about our physical sensations, thoughts, and feelings, giving us a way to become conscious about our underlying beliefs.
Do you recognise any of the below examples driving unwanted eating behaviours?
– There’s starving kids in Africa – I shouldn’t waste food.
– It’s rude to refuse food.
– I always eat dessert after dinner.
– Food is a reward that I must earn.

How Do You Keep These Unconscious Beliefs From Taking Over?

Next time you don’t like how an episode of eating turns out, pause to ask yourself if there was a subconscious belief influencing your eating decision.
Be aware of your beliefs. Journal them if that helps.
Feel your feelings/old stored negative emotions by doing emotional processing work (blog on emotional processing coming soon).
Tell your unwanted beliefs to bugger off! Trust that you’re in charge of what and when you eat, and that your body knows best.
Simple is rarely easy. Rewiring the brain of unwanted and limiting beliefs around food and eating may be hard work in the beginning… but it will be worth it. 

Kelly x